Have you been in a relationship for years, or even just weeks, and are thinking it might be time to break up with him? If you’re gut is telling you to break up with this guy, you need to listen to yourself. You may be in an abusive relationship or in a relationship where you've definitely figured out you two aren’t right for each other. If you need more help, we have five reasons why you should break up with him.
Reasons to Leave Him
The relief you feel is totally worth it. You may not believe us now, but when you break up with someone who is physically, mentally or emotionally abusive, or maybe he's just not right for you, you will feel a relief afterwards.
You can now move forward. When you are in a relationship you don’t want to be in, it makes you stationary in life, but a break-up will free you from that lifestyle of just feeling stuck. Bad relationships can hold you back, which will be hard to realize until after you end it.
You will be proud of yourself. This is a huge obstacle in life, even compared to many other obstacles that feel scary. However, you will feel proud that you've overcome this particular obstacle, ready to move onto the next chapter of your life.
You deserve to finally be honest with yourself. There’s nothing worse than pretending to be happy, especially in a relationship that you just aren't happy with. It’s even harder to lie about your happiness to friends and family and yourself, so take the step and be honest. Is this making you happy?
You need healing. We promise healing will come, and it will make you a better person for future relationships. Give yourself time to mourn, but also to celebrate, and figure out what you want before hopping into a new relationship. You will be a much stronger partner when you know exactly what you are looking for!
If you are going to breakup with your boyfriend, remember these reasons why you should and how invincible you will feel afterwards!