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The Power of an 8th Grade Girl & How She Helped Your Children

the-power-of-an-eighth-grade-girl-and-how-she-helped-your-childrenAt first, this story sounds so unlikely, you have to wonder whether it’s true: a 14 year-old girl instigates a petition drive to get Seventeen Magazine to stop "photoshopping" its teen models, garners 84,000 signatures, and the magazine agrees to change its policy. It even institutes a “Body Peace Treaty.”

That sounds like a pipe dream. The magazine’s editors promise the magazine won’t “change girls’ body or face shapes” and will feature “real girls and models who are healthy.” Further, readers will get behind-the-scenes glimpses—how shoots and edits of photo spreads occur.

The young woman who dreamt up the campaign? Julia Bluhm, who lives in Waterville, Maine. The petition launched in April; this is how she spent her eighth grade spring.

In a Boston Globe article about the SPARK campaign she helped to spearhead, Bluhm explained why she objected to the images in magazines like Seventeen. 

SPARK Campaign

SPARK stands for Sexualization Protest: Action, Resistance, Knowledge. The organization, launched in response to a report by a task force on the sexualization of girls by the American Psychological Association that cited the need for “more age-appropriate multimedia education and more public awareness of the sexualization issue in general,” SPARK has seven adult advisers and a team of 17 girls and young women across the United States. The group works in coalition with others focused on similar issues. Twenty more young women are about to join the team.

This story hands you talking points for conversations with your daughters and sons—preteen or teen, and even younger—about how unrealistic and unreal so much of what they see in the media is. American teenagers consume about 11 hours of media daily, according to a Kaiser Family Foundation 2010 study. Studies show that nearly a third of teen girls are anorexic. So, these are critical conversations. The reason I bring sons into the mix: just because they may not buy or browse Seventeen Magazine, they are still consumers of unrealistic images of girls and women. If their expectation is that “hot” equals Photoshopped version of female body, they, too, buy the notion that looking a certain—false—way is ideal.

How You Can Help Your Teen

You can also make sure your young daughters and sons interact with young women—college-age babysitters, coaches— who are more focused on what they dothan on how they appear. Fathers and mothers should introduce their teens to accomplished women in all professions. Clearly, parents have their work cut out for them, despite one magazine’s promise to aim toward more realism.

How do you combat the sexualized messages your teens receive and the unrealistic images they see? Let us know at Teen Life.

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Marie Schwartz

Marie Schwartz

I am the Founder of TeenLife Media, an information services company dedicated to promoting opportunities that bring out the best in teens. My childhood, living between the US and several countries in Europe, exposed me to the benefits of experiential learning and the growth that can happen for teens when they move beyond their comfort zones. As a parent, I was determined to provide my sons with similar opportunities. I launched TeenLife Media to organize the vast amount of information available to parents of teens and to share my knowledge with other parents who want to prepare their teens to be successful in college and beyond.

My career includes over twenty years of marketing and business development experience in the management consulting, financial services, and publishing industries. I have a high school degree from the American School of Paris, a BSE from Princeton University, and an MBA from the Harvard Business School.